A Return to Torrey Pines

“Far away there in the sunshine are my highest aspirations. I may not reach them, but I can look up and see their beauty, believe in them, and try to follow them”. – Louisa May Alcott

Sometimes you find places in the world that are truly special. That is how I feel about Torrey Pines State Natural Reserve. During a visit last April, I immediately fell in love with its dramatic windswept ocean views from the jagged cliffs covered in its namesake, Torrey Pines. I swore if I lived in San Diego that I’d be a frequent visitor to this magical place. Little did I know I’d be back visiting San Diego so soon.

Over the Christmas holiday in Arizona, we decided to do another road trip to San Diego from my parents home in Tucson. My husband, a devoted college football fan bought us tickets to the Holiday Bowl where we would see our alma mater, the University of Wisconsin-Badgers, defeat California’s beloved USC 23 to 21 in an exciting, action-packed game. Besides the game, we would have a little time to revisit some of our favorite places in San Diego.

After a six-hour car ride, we didn’t have much time to spare for our visit to Torrey Pines. We only had about an hour and a half until sunset. Yet, it was so stunningly beautiful that we had to do a short hike down from the top of coastal bluffs to the beach. The lighting wasn’t the best for taking photos but of course I couldn’t resist. I was amazed by how different the rocks looked at this time of day and how much the color changed with the setting of the sun.

A father and son shot before we head out on our hike.

The hike down is not too long. Depending on your speed and the number of stops for photos, you can make it to the bottom in less than thirty minutes. A lot of people prefer to hike up along the road to the top of the reserve where the visitor center is located, and then make the journey down. Since the park closes at sunset which is 6 pm in the winter time, we didn’t have enough time to make the entire journey. Furthermore, we had to leave enough time for the kids to play on the beach.

As we set off our on hike, I let myself fall behind and try to enjoy the moment of being there. The air was stunningly fresh and the sound of the sea instantly brought me an inner calm and peace that I only feel when I’m at my most relaxed state of being. I can see why so many yoga and meditation tracks include the lulling sound of the waves. Nothing can be more relaxing than that beautiful crashing sound against the beach.

The foliage is not as green and full of flowers as it is in the spring or summer but it is equally beautiful. I was surprised to see a few lone cactus alongside the torrey pines. The torrey pines are some of the rarest pines in the world and they flourish here along the coastal bluffs of the park. Here you can see them off in the distance, looking as if they are about to fall off the edge.

The kids and my husband were long gone by the time I reached the last part of the trail. I took a shot of the stairs leading to another part of the park yet to be explored. Despite the pull of desire to climb up these stairs, I wasn’t meant to follow this path yet.

Alas I approached the beach which is what the kids have been waiting for. It is a slow walk down a few steep stairs but we are there in the nick of time. The tide is moving in and soon there will be no beach left.

There is much to explore along the beach. The rising tide has brought in many seashells and rocks to toss back to the ocean, a favorite pastime of the kids. The coastal bluffs are also dramatically changing in color from pale yellow, to pink and a magnificent blood orange color that is so bright it almost hurts your eyes.

Of course I had to take a few family shots. I never seem to be in them however which is not good for the holiday cards each year. I love capturing the beauty of this place and the look of enchantment and delight in my children’s eyes.

I take another set of photos of the rocks and the sunlight on the ocean. It is such a precious time of day.

As the children play along the beach, the sun makes its final surrender within the sky lighting up the bluffs in a brilliant red.

“If you ask me what I came into this life to do, I will tell you: I came to live out loud”. – Emile Zola

It is hard to believe that these are the very same bluffs shot in the pictures taken just ten minutes earlier.

And, a few last shots goodbye.

I sincerely hope we make it back to San Diego again soon. It is a wonderful place.

23 thoughts on “A Return to Torrey Pines

  1. Miriam – Australia – I’m a wonder lusting woman, a musician, a freelance travel writer and magazine columnist. Utterly passionate about travel and life and turning the ordinary moments into the extraordinary. My motto is “just do it”.
    Miriam on said:

    Sounds like a very special place. Lucky you. Thanks for sharing.

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thanks! It was a nice visit and worth a few long days in the car!

      • Miriam – Australia – I’m a wonder lusting woman, a musician, a freelance travel writer and magazine columnist. Utterly passionate about travel and life and turning the ordinary moments into the extraordinary. My motto is “just do it”.
        Miriam on said:

        The best places usually are!

  2. deannawt – American mom of two boys relocating to Hyderabad, India, for three years. This blog has been created to give our friends, family and total strangers insight into our adventures as ex-pats in India.
    deannawt on said:

    San Diego is my hometown. We don’t live there anymore, but Torrey Pines is still one of my favorite places on earth! That’s where my husband and I used to meet for dinner when we were dating. We’d grab something to eat, sit on the beach, and watch the sunset. This was before the parking area was regulated and you could stay as late as you wanted.

    Your pictures are gorgeous! Makes me miss this lovely beach! Thanks for sharing.

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Oh wow thanks so much for sharing! I can picture how romantic that must have been. I kept thinking of how nice it would be to have some wine at sunset. I really love San Diego. The climate is so nice, it has so much greenery and lots to do and explore. Where do you live now? Thanks so much for sharing this memory with me. 😌

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Does your daughter live in San Diego Janet? You should definitely go to Torrey Pines! You would love it! 🙂

  3. Nomads By Nature – We are a foreign service family living around the world. Our comments and pictures are our own and do not express the views of our employer. Being a bit shy, we kindly request that you do not link us to social websites such as Facebook. Links to your personal blog are welcome. About our Gravatar: This ‘little’ garden sculpture gem was at Kirstenbosch in Cape Town. I’m not usually into sculpture (except I must admit that I do think that the big Easter Island heads are pretty funky looking) but when I saw this one, I fell in love. If I ever had enough money and the weight allowance, this would have been the sculpture I would have bought myself for my garden/yard. It is just whimsical and it made me smile. It felt like the best reminder to relax, play, have fun, see the world from a new perspective. Of course, you could always be a pesamist and look at it like “Whoa, the giant elephant foot of oppression is going to stomp on the head of the unsuspecting happy person”. I choose the optimistic view.
    Nomads By Nature on said:

    This place looks and sounds magical! I think it would be a favorite of mine too if I ever lived nearby.

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Yes there is something quite spectacular about the wide open water of the ocean. I’ve always lived by water but only lakes. I love water.

  4. Sue Slaght – Calgary, Alberta Canada – www.traveltalesoflife.com Many years from now, when I am an old lady sitting in the nursing home, I hope to be the twinkly eyed resident still entertaining anyone who I can corner to listen, about all of the wild adventures attempted in a lifetime. Well into the second half of the game of life there is no time like the present to get out there, live big and laugh a lot. Living in Calgary, Alberta, married to my best friend Dave for over thirty years and Mom to adult children; my decades as a nurse have shown that in a moment life can change completely. Passionate about social justice, volunteerism and not letting the phrase “What would people think?” or my own fear get in the way of trying something new; the possibilities are endless. Enjoy the tales and I hope you will be inspired to try something you have been thinking about doing.
    Sue Slaght on said:

    What a beautiful place. Wonderful to see more images after seeing the stunning one on Instagram.

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thanks Sue! I sure love it there. I really want to someday do a drive from South to North along the ocean of California and continue onwards. One of those bucket list dreams!

  5. Great read as usual. I enjoy your photos – especially the stairs, they are gorgeous. It seems you had a great day there. I can imagine – travelling around the world with your family is something I would love to do as well.
    You should really try to go a couple of thousand miles to the north. We have tons of precious shores around as well.

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thanks! I love your photos as well. They remind me a little bit of the North Shore of Lake Superior here in Minnesota. Yes, Canada is a gorgeous country. Much there to explore. Thanks for the comment.

  6. Alison and Don – Occupation: being/living/experiencing/travelling. In our sixties, with apparently no other authentic option, my husband Don and I sold our apartment and car, sold or gave away all our stuff and set off to discover the world. And ourselves. We started in Italy in 2011 and from there have travelled to Spain, India, Bali, Australia, New Zealand, SE Asia, South America, Egypt, Japan, etc. - you can see the blog archive. We travelled full-time for nearly six years, and then re-established a home in Vancouver. We now travel 2-3 months per year. We are interested in how the world works, how life works, how the creation of experience works, how the mind works. As we travel and both "choose" our course, and at the same time just let it unfold, we discover the "mechanics" of life, the astounding creativity of life, and a continual need to return to trust and presence. Opening the heart, and acceptance of what is, as it is, are keystones for us both. Interests: In no particular order: travel, photography, figure skating (as a fan), acceptance, authenticity, walking/hiking, joy, creativity, being human, adventure, presence, NOW. Same for Don except replace figure skating with Formula One motor racing.
    Alison and Don on said:

    What a beautiful place. And wow! you got some fabulous shots.
    Alison

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thanks Alison! The shots don’t do it justice as I am not good at taking photos in full light! I still need to learn this skill! But it was quite beautiful. It is really cold here now so I think I will go back and look at those photos again and close my eyes to pretend I’m there! 🙂

  7. maamej – Australia – I'm a single white Aussie mum of anglo-celtic background with a teenage son whose dad is from Ghana in West Africa. I’m blogging to share experiences, insights & funny stories about living in a mixed family. I also blog about health, politics, culture, racism and food.
    maamej on said:

    What a glorious place – somewhere to check out next time we are in the US.

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Yes it is amazing! 😌

  8. restlessjo – Hi! I’m Jo! Johanna when I’m feeling posh, Jan to my Dad, and Joasiu to my Polish family. A bit of a mix-up, that’s me. The one constant, however, is my restless nature. I love to travel and to explore our world. It doesn’t have to be the big wide world. I can be ridiculously happy not too far from home, so long as I’m seeking new horizons. Of course I have a wish list, and it was to help me fulfil my dreams that I started to write travel guides for a venture called Simonseeks. I’d always kept a travel diary, and it was hugely satisfying to share my experiences and to make new friends who shared my passion for travel. Alas, Simonseeks hit a few troubles, but I still find myself writing about my travels. I’ve become addicted. I’d love to share them, and to make more friends. So, it has to be a blog- right? Or do I mean- write?
    restlessjo on said:

    Take me with you! 🙂 🙂 My favourite shot is that first one of the bluffs with the rocks in the foreground. Stunning! You know I could linger there for hours, Nicole. 🙂
    Weird to watch your children growing up through the blog. Your son, so tall now! A healthy and happy 2016 to you all 🙂

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      I am sure you could Jo! It would be perfect for one of your walks! Yes it is five years since I started this blog and the kids have grown up way to fast. My son is very tall for his age and almost as tall as me at only 11. 😌

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thanks Amy! It is scary how fast they are growing up! I often wish time would just slow down a little bit but of course that is impossible!

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