My last day with the Maasai

“Call it a clan, call it a tribe, call it a family. Whatever you all it, whoever you are, you need one”. – Jane Howard

Sleeping all alone in the bush is not for the faint at heart. I was exhausted by the end of the day at the Mkuru Maasai Training Camp after all the travel to get there yet as soon as I said goodnight to Camilla, the camp volunteer, and unzipped the canvas door of my tent I felt utterly alone. It was pitch black in the bush and eerily quiet. As I crawled into my bed and pulled up the covers, all I could hear was the whispering of the wind.

Mkuru Maasai Training Camp

View outside my tent that night

Although it was only ten o’clock, it felt like midnight. I have to admit I was a little afraid. Not so much that someone would come to my tent and harm me but just simply afraid of being alone in the bush. I hid under three layers of blankets and tried my best to fall asleep. Eventually I fell asleep and was awoken around three in the morning by the howl of the wind. The sides of the tent flickered in and out violently and it was so incredibly loud that I had to wear ear plugs. Unfortunately I also had to go to the bathroom but remembering what Camilla informed me about the snakes I was way too scared to leave the comforts of my tent. Furthermore it was pitch black out there!

I looked around the tent and fortunately found a small bowl which I used to relieve myself and laughed at the stupidity of it all. It did the trick though and spared me from having to navigate myself out of the tent and into the outhouse that may very well be hosting a cobra. I let the wind lull me to a deep sleep and didn’t awake until well past seven the next morning.

Coffee on the deck overlooking the bush

My room for the night

I enjoyed the beautiful view of the bush around me and marveled at how a community of people could live off the land for generations. The life of the Maasai was so incredibly different from mine. How could I ever explain it to my children without them seeing it for themselves?

View of a young Maasai boy herding his cattle

I packed up my belongings and headed over for breakfast. Although I could have spent another day at the camp enjoying more activities it was time to go. My flight back home was leaving that evening from the Kilimanjaro Airport and I had hours of travel ahead.

Jacobo, the Camp Manager,  brings me back to Moshi.

I told Jacobo that I wanted to make one more stop to visit another boma before we left. I also secretly wanted to do a little more shopping. I had fallen in love with the gorgeous, brilliant beadwork and jewelry made by the Maasai women and wanted to purchase a few more pieces for gifts.

Jacobo brought me to visit some of his friends that lived on the outskirts of the area. As tradition, it was time for another boma tour and pictures of the beautiful family.

I was introduced to the family and was allowed to take some photos. I loved capturing the beautiful women and children and showing them their image on my digital camera. The children laughed and giggled when they saw themselves!

After my tour of their home, it was time to see the jewelry. The women laid down a blanket and arranged all their colorful jewelry on top for me to see. It was all so beautiful I had a hard time deciding which pieces to buy. I also knew that every piece I purchased would help them survive.

It was so hard to choose. Everything was so beautiful that I wish I could have bought it all. Meanwhile I was also equally mesmerized by the beauty of the Maasai. I couldn’t resist capturing some of their smiles.

Finally my choices were made. As I was about to leave, I was given an unexpected surprise. The matriarch of the community presented me with a beautiful pair of earrings.

Although we couldn’t communicate, our smiles and gratefulness was enough. I felt so incredibly blessed to have experienced a one-on-one visit with the Maasai people. One day wasn’t enough time. Yet it is a memory that will stay with me for the rest of my life.

Author’s note: This post is the last one in a series on my visit to the Mkuru Maasai Training Camp. To read all posts in the series, click here.

20 thoughts on “My last day with the Maasai

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thanks Janet! You too!

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      🙂

  1. Alison and Don – Occupation: being/living/experiencing/travelling. In our sixties, with apparently no other authentic option, my husband Don and I sold our apartment and car, sold or gave away all our stuff and set off to discover the world. And ourselves. We started in Italy in 2011 and from there have travelled to Spain, India, Bali, Australia, New Zealand, SE Asia, South America, Egypt, Japan, etc. - you can see the blog archive. We travelled full-time for nearly six years, and then re-established a home in Vancouver. We now travel 2-3 months per year. We are interested in how the world works, how life works, how the creation of experience works, how the mind works. As we travel and both "choose" our course, and at the same time just let it unfold, we discover the "mechanics" of life, the astounding creativity of life, and a continual need to return to trust and presence. Opening the heart, and acceptance of what is, as it is, are keystones for us both. Interests: In no particular order: travel, photography, figure skating (as a fan), acceptance, authenticity, walking/hiking, joy, creativity, being human, adventure, presence, NOW. Same for Don except replace figure skating with Formula One motor racing.
    Alison and Don on said:

    Beautiful post. I do hope I get there one day.
    Alison

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      I am sure you will Alison! 🙂

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thanks Amy! Glad you enjoyed. 🙂

  2. Sas – Cardiff, UK – I'm vegan. I love to travel. I challenge myself to visit at least one new place and try at least one new activity every year. When I'm not writing, I like to ski, rock climb, keep fit and bodyboard.
    Sas on said:

    This looks like such an amazing experience Nicole, thanks for sharing it with us.

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thanks Sas!

  3. lulu – Houston, TX & Rockport, ME – I am a fiber artist with special emphasis on weaving, but I love working with threads and cloth in a variety of mediums. New ideas, new ways of connecting threads are the spice of life.
    lulu on said:

    My experience with the Masai is one of the most memorable of all my travels.

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Did you write about it Lulu? If so, send me the link as I’d love to read it. 🙂

      • lulu – Houston, TX & Rockport, ME – I am a fiber artist with special emphasis on weaving, but I love working with threads and cloth in a variety of mediums. New ideas, new ways of connecting threads are the spice of life.
        lulu on said:

        No, this was before the blog. I think I was a Masai woman in a previous life.

      • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
        thirdeyemom on said:

        Love this Lulu!

  4. Wow. You seems to have met the real tribe. Most of the travel photos I see are just the Masai tribe performing for a crowd of visitors. Sometimes I worry If i go there I will never be able to see the real tribe! I see and LOVE your photos! Glad you had a good time!

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Yes I was really lucky to go to a research facility. I had searched into different options before I went and so many didn’t seem like good places. Just touristy that didn’t really help the people nor show them as they are.

  5. Harold Green – San Miguel de Allende, Mexico – I love exploring different cultures of our world with my wife Rita and my Nikon SLR camera. I try to bring back the overlaying rich textures of a different country’s lifestyle. To capture a moment in time as I float down a river, walk a mud-street village, hike a sand dune at sunrise, stroll up a jungle trail or cruise through the workshop of a regional craftsman, is a pleasure and a dream. It is a joy of mine to share these images with children and young students in hopes that my images will inspire a few of them to travel and explore in-depth other cultures of the world with an open mind. I am a professional photographer with a host of digital SLR gear. I am retired and live in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico with my wife Rita. In my previous life I owned an advertising/public relations agency in Houston, Texas where I launched my 25-year career as the agency’s Creative Director. Upon retirement, in 1989, I moved full-time to the island of Martha’s Vineyard before moving to Mexico in 2001. I was born in upstate New York in the small town of Auburn on the Finger Lakes. I attended The Northwood Preparatory School in Lake Placid, New York. After graduation I received a degree in advertising and marketing from the University of Florida in Gainesville, Florida. The inspiration for my love of photography came from my father, who was an amateur photographer. As a young child, I spent many hours in his darkroom helping him hang black & white prints with a clothes pin.
    Harold Green on said:

    Dear thirdeyemom,
    With your series on the Maasai you have taken me back to my most favorite journey of all of my journeys around our most beautiful world. I was glued to your every word and photograph. Thank you! Thank you! It was such a thrill to join you as you weaved yourself day after day through the lifestyle of the Maasai. I have saved your entire series!!! I thought you might enjoy my series on the Maasai. http://throughharoldslens.com/category/genre/people/maasai-tribes/ Best, Harold

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thank you Harold. I loved this visit. It was so special. I will check out your posts too so thank you so much for sharing them!

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