Frayed Clothes and the Blue Sweater

When I arrived in Ethiopia, it was impossible not to notice the frayed clothing worn by most rural Ethiopians. As an avid reader on global issues and extreme poverty, I couldn’t seem to get the fabulous non-fiction book “The Blue Sweater” by Jacqueline Novogratz out of my head. One of the unforgettable moments in Jacqueline’s life was when she was living in Rwanda and saw a young boy wearing her blue sweater that she had donated eleven years ago to a local American charity. Somehow that sweater with her initials still written clearly inside, made it all the way to Africa and was still being worn despite being tattered and frayed. It made Norogratz, a successful investment banker, think about how our world is interconnected, and it steered her life towards philanthropy.

Driving throughout the rural countryside of Ethiopia where over 90% of Ethiopia’s 90 million people live, frayed clothing is an omnipresent reminder of the high level of poverty in this part of the world. I saw toddlers wearing no bottoms, little boys wearing pink jackets, girls and women in a pell-mell of skirts, tops and dresses, and men wearing worn-out, patched up trousers. Shoes were rarely present especially on children. If shoes were worn, they were either too big, too small or torn.

I thought about my own children, comfortably back at home in Minnesota with more clothing in their closets and drawers than they could possibly wear to the point of wearing them out. The fact that twice a year I make the annual trip to Goodwill or Salvation Army where I unload all the unnecessary clothing that is supposed to go to the local community but like Norogratz’ blue sweater, most likely ends up somewhere in Africa.

Was some little girl out there wearing my daughter’s favorite dress? I am certain she is.

Rural Ethiopian Girl

This post was inspired by the Weekly Photo Challenge: Fray. To view more entries click here. 

I was in Ethiopia in June as a reporting fellow with the International Reporting Project. To see all my stories from the trip, click here

 

 

41 thoughts on “Frayed Clothes and the Blue Sweater

  1. Kat at travelgardeneat – Life sometimes gets so busy, we forget to stop and smell the roses. Travel.Garden.Eat is a reminder to slow down and enjoy the things that make good memories and replenish the soul!
    Kat at travelgardeneat on said:

    Such a thoughtful response to the photo challenge, Nicole.

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thanks Kat! How are you? You must be busy as you haven’t had many posts over the summer. Hope all is well! Kids start school tomorrow! Looking forward to fall!

      • Kat at travelgardeneat – Life sometimes gets so busy, we forget to stop and smell the roses. Travel.Garden.Eat is a reminder to slow down and enjoy the things that make good memories and replenish the soul!
        Kat at travelgardeneat on said:

        Oldest all moved in to the dorms down your way this week — busy times …. all good though! Hoping to find more time for blogging this fall as we settle back into the school year routine. Good to hear from you!

  2. Colline – http://collinesblog.wordpress.com – I am an educator, blogger, wife and mother. I enjoy reading, scrapbooking, crafting, photography, and spending time with my family.
    Colline on said:

    Whenever we go visit South Africa I take the clothing that I have kept over the years so that I can give it to the church, who then distributes them to those children in need. The old clothes are never turned away as fashion is not a concern when you don’t have money to buy clothing.

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Are you from South Africa Colline? That is wonderful that you bring your clothing there to help out. 🙂

      • Colline – http://collinesblog.wordpress.com – I am an educator, blogger, wife and mother. I enjoy reading, scrapbooking, crafting, photography, and spending time with my family.
        Colline on said:

        Yes I am and when I taught there I saw many children in need. Now that I am living here I keep bags and bags of clothing and shoes that my children have outgrown to take with me when I visit family.

      • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
        thirdeyemom on said:

        Wow that is great Colline! 🙂

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thanks Debra! 🙂 Yep time for me to go through our clothing now too. My kids grow so fast but I think most of their cloths stay here as we still have a fair amount of children who could use them and are in need. Hope you are well. 🙂

  3. Heartwarming and touching post, Nicole. Perfect for the weekly photo challenge. These children are beautiful inside and out. Thanks for the reminder that we must always appreciate what we have.

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thanks Debbie! 🙂 I always take these kinds of angles but am glad people like you understand where I’m coming from! Sometimes I must get tiresome though. 🙂

  4. What a lovely response to the challenge. I remember seeing a child in Zambia wearing a spider-man top and wondering if it was the one I had donated. I have heard that in some places our donated clothes are actually SOLD to the people, which is definitely not right.

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thank you! Wow, that is pretty cool about the spiderman shirt. I have heard that as well (that some clothing donated is sold). That is definitely not right. I am a huge fan of recycling things and clothing is such a great thing. I would love to go to Zambia someday. Do you have any posts on your trip there?

      • I haven’t actually travelled in Zambia (other than camping one night on an island in the middle of the Zambesi which is where I encountered the Zambian children) but have travelled a bit in Africa and lived in South Africa years ago. This link is to my encounter with Spiderman 😉
        http://wp.me/pL5Ms-Ow

      • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
        thirdeyemom on said:

        Thanks! 🙂

  5. jaime perez – Maracay, Estado Aragua, Venezuela – Born and stablished in Maracay, Venezuela, I´m a teacher and a passionate about photography. The idea of this blog is to share my vision of the world trough my pictures as welll as enjoying the views of the rest of the Wordpress comunity. Feel free to take a look and coment any post in my blogs; I'll appreciate it and I´ll take your feedback into consideration.
    jaime perez on said:

    This is a powerful and very appropriate post for the theme Nicole. As always, it’s reinforced with a set of amazing photos that accurately complementing the message. I quickly recognized that 5th photo, from a previous post, and had the same feeling again!

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thanks Jaime! Yes some of the photos are recycled. I tried to use a different filter on them to make them a little bit different. 🙂

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    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thank you so much! 🙂 I appreciate the comment! 🙂

  7. Your eye for the raw beauty comes thro in each and every shot … the little girl all dressed in green brought me to tears as I pictured Tasmin, my little fashionista putting together matching ensembles. What a beautiful post, and I loved that book xxxx

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Oh Nicole…thank you so much!!!! I am so glad the post brought you feelings. That book was amazing, wasn’t it? I hope you are doing well. You are a special person! 🙂 Hug those girls tight!

  8. anotherday2paradise – Durban South Africa and Florida USA – I enjoy writing about absolutely anything, and started blogging with WordPress in 2012. This was my 'Hammock Lady' blog, and I really enjoyed sharing my travels here: http://adinparadise.wordpress.com/ In November 2013, I decided it was time for a change of scenery, so I started my blog afresh, and here it is. I love to travel, and have been fortunate enough to do two round-the-world trips and visit more than forty countries so far. This year we visited our 7th continent, Antarctica. I enjoy photographing wildlife, especially in my backyard in Florida. I was born and brought up in England. My husband and I emigrated to South Africa in 1970. We now live in Florida, USA. I have a son and a daughter and five gorgeous grandchildren currently aged between 6 and 21 years. I'm so happy that you've taken the time to visit my blog, and would love for you to join me on my travels. Sylvia.
    anotherday2paradise on said:

    A really moving post, Nicole, and your pictures tell such a story. It’s so gratifying to know that our discarded clothing is able to help those in need. The Salvation Army do such a great job.

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thanks Sylvia! I’m glad you enjoyed the post. When I saw the challenge, the images of the children popped into my head and I had to go with it.

  9. Eliz@MirthandMotivation – Growing up on three continents has exposed me to people/places that are culturally rich and varied. My interests in learning, teaching and traveling continue to inform my work as a training specialist. My family, friends, faith and colleagues have been instrumental in my growth; therefore, as I learn, develop and share new skills, I remember with gratitude, how important it is support others.
    Eliz@MirthandMotivation on said:

    Your beautiful pictures and posts brought back memories of my trips home and elsewhere on the continent; it’s quite common for children to wear clothes shipped from far away countries. Often the clothes are sold in the marketplace for pennies… When feasible, some care agencies provide the clothes for free. They are appreciated and valued by the families and kids. Some kids go naked when such aid is unavailable.. Welcome home my friend! 🙂

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thanks Eliz for the comment! 🙂 Glad you enjoyed the post. 🙂

  10. restlessjo – Hi! I’m Jo! Johanna when I’m feeling posh, Jan to my Dad, and Joasiu to my Polish family. A bit of a mix-up, that’s me. The one constant, however, is my restless nature. I love to travel and to explore our world. It doesn’t have to be the big wide world. I can be ridiculously happy not too far from home, so long as I’m seeking new horizons. Of course I have a wish list, and it was to help me fulfil my dreams that I started to write travel guides for a venture called Simonseeks. I’d always kept a travel diary, and it was hugely satisfying to share my experiences and to make new friends who shared my passion for travel. Alas, Simonseeks hit a few troubles, but I still find myself writing about my travels. I’ve become addicted. I’d love to share them, and to make more friends. So, it has to be a blog- right? Or do I mean- write?
    restlessjo on said:

    Beautiful, Nicole. I signed up, belatedly, for the newsletter 🙂

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    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thanks!

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thanks! 🙂

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  13. Cathy – United States – My passion is writing and being a health advocate. The marriage of the two is what I've decided to do now during my "Second Chapter." My blog, An Empowered Spirit, is for people age 50+ who want to live a vibrant and healthy life. I am a writer for several health websites focusing on Multiple Sclerosis. I enjoy "paying it forward to others" as an MS Peer Advocate for Teva Neuroscience. I am happily married with one wonderful son and 3 adorable cats. I am crazy about classic black and white movies. My perfect weekend would be to hang out with Robert Osborne at the TCM Film Festival in Hollywood. I'll have to work on that.
    Cathy Chester on said:

    When I think of all the clothing we get rid of because they are either not in style, had a small hole that went unrepaired or we simply don’t wear it anymore, it’s shameful that we don’t have a way of giving them to those who need them most. I do recycle them by giving them to local charities. Thank you for posting this. The message is an important one.

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thanks so much Cathy for the comment! I was hoping readers would enjoy the post! 🙂 It does make you think doesn’t it?

  14. gallivance.net – On the Road! – We're Terri and James Vance - high school sweethearts who went on to international careers and became world nomads. Today, 65 countries later, we're still traveling ... and still in love. Check out Our Story for more of the backstory at gallivance.net.
    gallivance.net on said:

    Thoughtful and beautiful Nicole. When we moved to Sudan we purposely took lots of kids clothes to donate – particularly T-shirts and dresses. We wrote our initials on the tags, and over the years when we spotted something familiar, we’d talk to the kids and take a polaroid to commemorate the occasion. 🙂 ~Terri

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thanks Terri! I bet the kids in Sudan loved the clothing. It would be really great to hand deliver them too. 🙂

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  16. Leslee Jaeger – Minnesota – Ob/gyn physician, mom to both bio and adopted kids, passionate about women's health care both domestic and international. Love to travel, explore new foods and cultures.
    Leslee Jaeger on said:

    The Blue Sweater is one of my favorite books about the developing world. The colorful combination of clothes that I see when I travel always brings to mind the fashion magazines pics about what to combine for the most current trend. I like the mismatched look better!

  17. Madhu – Madhu is an Interior designer turned travel blogger on a long sabbatical to explore the world. When not crafting stories on The Urge To Wander, she's probably Tweeting @theurgetowander or sharing special moments on instagram.com/theurgetowander
    Madhu on said:

    A beautiful and moving interpretation Nicole. The disparity is heartbreaking.

    • thirdeyemom – Writer, traveler, hiker and global humanitarian traveling the world and doing good. Member of Impact Travel Alliance Media Network. 40+ countries and still wandering sharing my journey along the way.
      thirdeyemom on said:

      Thanks Madhu. This trip moved me very much.

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